random things in my life now

Hello in there,
 I have had some good days and not so good, just like you do. We had to go to a brother in laws funeral and then to Kentucky to for the graveside service to be there for his wife and family. While there we all went and spent the night at his daughters who lives outside Nashville. Nice being with extended family but hate the reason we were all together, but its a necessary part of life. On the way back we hit like a pot hole on I 65 and it really shook the car and even cracked our windshield, so I had to price check them and then go and have it replaced, unexpected expense of not only gas to Kentucky and back but also a windshield. Then the same week I had to go the yours and mine favorite place to be ! Yes, the dentist !If that ain't bad enough coming home from Montgomery my 1967 starting shaking and bouncing , then it got really bad, I was doing some sweet talking to my old car to make it back home. she made it! So the next day I finds me price checking tires and another unexpected expense of 4 new tires. Then on top of that a family member has a flat on the way to work and no money to fix so we had to loan money for two tires and don't know when they can pay back but they have to be able to get to around so what you gonna do? Another unexpected expense but it couldn't be helped either. Just when you think you are going to get ahead these things come up and I guess all you can do is roll with the punches, do what you have to and keep stroking, so I am.
 I might be able to cut out my cell phone bill of about 55$  a month. I searched for cheaper plans and found one called freedompop. It is free! It suits me so far, I get 200 talk, 500 messages, and 500 mb of data per month for free! Had it 2 days and so far so good. If it works out that is like giving myself a 55$ raise.
  I have been trying hard to stay in a good mood and live my life and not others and not trying to please others, cause you can't anyway and I find my life is better. Sometimes it is hard but I am progressing . 
 Everyone seems to have gone to the beach but me! boo hoo. But if I went ,all me and the wife would do is still on the balcony and watch the surf. Is that bad? But it's not much fun playing in the surf with no younger people around.
 I cooked fried rice with lobster yesterday, first time I ever have and it was fun cooking from scratch, dry rice, English peas, onions, bell pepper out of my garden, garlic ,carrots, Sesame oil, and lobster, it turned out really good, even the wife liked it! yaa !!
     See ya around my friend~