Wednesday, July 22, 2015

shaking things up

I thought I would try something different with my wife. I decided to treat her like a queen for awhile and see how she responds, Thinking this might be a good thing for me too. So I had a good supper cooked when she got home, told her to relax on loveseat while I set the table, even made her something to drink. When we were thru with the steak dinner with all the trimmings I told her to get let her food settle and watch some tv while I cleaned up the kitchen. I did. Later I made us some popcorn and brought her some. Next morning I got up and made breakfast and her drink and had it ready for her and also made her a lunch and a few small surprise treats to go with her. So that day I washed and put up all the dirty clothes, dusted, vacuumed the whole house, picked up and put away everything that was left out, changed the sheets on the bed, cleaned our bathroom all shiny. Then I cooked another good meal and did the same as before, let her rest on loveseat while I got everything ready and afterwards cleaned everything up. Later on I made her a bowl of ice cream she didn't know I went and bought and surprised her with it while she was watching her tv shows.
 I asked her how did she like being treated as a queen by me and me waiting on her hand and foot and she not having to do anything, all she had to do was let me know what she wanted and I did it with a smile on my face, she said it's nice but this isn't me. I'm not use to being pleased so much and don't think I can get use to it.
 How about that! I actually was having fun waiting on her and trying to please her in every way but she didn't like it. I don't understand things some time. I thought she would love it but she didn't. She said I didn't have to do them things, I said I know that, I want to! So I don't know the moral to the situation, maybe it's just that no matter how hard you try you can't please some people. Even if you wait on them like you were their slave. I don't regret doing all the things I did as I said it was different and kind of fun so I really didn't lose anything or cost me anything but my time and effort and I think it was worth a try to show someone you really do care for and want the best for them.
 Out of the ordinary every day life we all fall into, oh well, I tried with a good heart to shake things up a little.

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